Thursday, 26 April 2018

topsy-turvy !!!!!!!!

Do we seriously believe?  

Dark is beautiful, Is it? May be, we have  accepting it but there are conditions. It is beautiful, till the moment  we compare it with fairness. Once we started compare, of course, fair is lovelier than dark.

 

 

We the girl don’t feel beauty, until unless we judge it. We have already defined beauty within boundaries  from  a mother of a baby girl, from labour room pain to see her child well grown up . At times, the fair is lovelier than dark.  The Slim is sexier than curves. The Blue eyes are more desirable than black eyes. How often do we see beyond these notions ? 

 

I’ve seen people struggle just to have a meal across the world.  The Naked children running in the street on. But I’ve never thought of struggling to live while being constantly, constantly cold for a while for myself. Life expectancy here was low — living into your 50s was a laudable achievement.  Most children died, and large extended families lived in single-room houses. life where street dogs are rich !! 


 My dad was always asking me, why I’m running away from cycle ?  A few weeks ago, a commenter told me to stop running away from and live life. And I once came across a blog called “Mom says I’m running away.” Huh !! so much hilarious it is ?

 

 I’m not sure why, but there is this perception out there that anyone who travels long term and isn’t interested in settling down or getting a conventional job must be running away from something...something from life ..not a bit stable they are ..someone says ..though i do believe !!

 

 They are just trying to “escape life.” ---- on a single line they are called escapist !!!

 


for those of us who lead nomadic lifestyles, or who linger just a bit too long somewhere before reaching that final homestretch, we are accused of running away from the far. 

 

Yes,travel—but just not for too long.We nomads must have awful, miserable lives, or are weird, or have had something traumatic happen to us that we are trying to escape. People assume that we are simply running away from our problems, running away from “the real world.”I’m running towards everything – towards the world, exotic places, new people, different cultures, and my own idea of freedom. Life is short, and we only get to live it once. I want to look back and say I did crazy things, not say I spent my life reading blogs like this while wishing I was doing the same thing. my perspective might be different from the rest of yours. In my country, you go to school, you get a job, you get married, you buy a house, and have your children. Society boxes you in and restricts your movements to their expectations. It’s like the matrix calculation. And any deviation is considered abnormal and weird and fitted with all situations.

 

 Life is what you make it out to be. Life is yours to create. We are all chained down by the burdens we place upon ourselves, whether they are bills,  or, like me, self-imposed blogging deadlines. If you really want something, you have to go after it. venting out at times is too difficult for people !!

 

People who travel the world aren’t running away from life. Just the opposite they are. Those that break the mold, explore the world, and live on their own terms are running toward true living, in my opinion. We have a degree of freedom a lot of people will never experience, the process. We get to be the captains of our ships in the sea. But it is a freedom we chose to have our own. We looked around and said, “I want something different. yeah” It was that freedom and attitude  that inspired me to do what I am doing now. I saw them break the mold and I thought to myself, “Why not me too?”, this is my voice, and the a few people supported me too !! my luckiness,  a hard time passed on !! 

 

I’m not running away.

I am running towards the world and my idea of life and search the truth what behind !!

And I never plan to look back.

 

 

And to all those people who say that, I say to you—you’re right.

Completely right.

I am running away.

I’m running away from your idea of the “real” world.


                                                                                           JYOTI Panigrahi !!




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