Isme Tera Ghata !! - Choking throat speaks !!

I am writing this to the void.

Mera kuch nahi jata
Zyada pyaar ho jata
Toh main seh nahi pata

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These days, every where (from shopping complex to daily market, loud music in the car to restaurant  to  gym and blah  and  blah)  a repeated random song buzzing to me !! 

Hey, Young guys, Specially to the girls / ladies, who loves their own company,  i guess you already got the song --

 Isme tera ghata !

Mera Kuch nehin Jaata ! 

There was once an urgency to be understood, a dire need to convey the music of words that sang to me. I find that urgency in me fading. Suddenly, as if, it does not matter if one is understood or not. Why?

So, coming to the point ladies !! Lets relate to our family, friends and of course to our selves, our own life, just to think, to speak and feel free to share with the world !! 

Dedicatedly, this song made me think twice before writing this blog ; to search one more time just to think twice with great ladies around the world, would i ?? 

I have been thinking about writing this blog for quite some time now. Finally inspired to put it on blog after reading the growing number of stories by other women with similar experiences. All of them brave women who were neither afraid nor ashamed to open up. Empowered by the realization that being vulnerable and sharing our darkest stories only makes us stronger. Unites us. Connects us more with one another and brings out our humanity. But it’s not easy. Big acts of courage never are. But as I write down these words, it’s like medicine cleansing my spirit and healing me of course. Talking about the experience strips away its power over me, lotz of books so far !!

 

deep inside my solitude : i was born to reply everything against to me, when there is no fault of mine !! i am not that set of girl /  lady / woman,  Who is  afraid to speak up. Who looks so comfortable in her own skin, trust me !! may b  there is drops in my eyes, still i will say what the truth is ... 

Now, the point is not to make anyone feel better about yourself what you are not at all, is now not my kind of work to do at all. It is simply to free you of the illusion that such a perfect person exists. lol.

Perfection is unattainable and the persistent unprofitable.  However, if you realise that maturity – and not perfection – really lies at the heart of confidence and strength.  

   

If you desire to live with confidence, you will need to know what you can be confident about what you have. This requires truthful self-insight, which develops with maturity and under gentle, honest mentorship. You need to cultivate a balanced self-concept.  

Kuch soch k bola hoga tumne 

Yeh pyar bhi tola hoga tumne

Aab na koi toh na sahi dilbar

Iss dil ko yeh samjha liya humne !!

 

Then, develop a sense of humor about your weaknesses and play life by your strengths please. Be okay with your flaws, failures and other freaky features and be rightly (and humbly) self-assured about your assets. My own experience about being strong !! 

Then, the beauty be confident, what you have, what you wear it does not matter whether it is Saree / shorts / Bikini ..... or wrapping your face ,,, go with your confidence !! With that said- please go with your body types !! 

 

Life is filled with duality and so do not believe anyone blindly, so closely, anyone can stabbed you from the back, just think twice before you do trust !!  A part of you will probably always remain a little girl with anxieties and doubts, be there always  !!!!   and you will consciously have to stand against it. Choose a few, avoid people who  just wanted favour from you or vice-versa !!! Helping is good, but taking the favour or profoundness  because of it,  has no meaning of help. Dnt go for it, Vice-Versa, you will regret one day, as i do !!  do appreciate him/ her for the favour, in regards other wise !! If you found anyone not understand your value or you are their part of discussion, just stick to yourself !! Stay away from people of that set !!! Do not put  your story to gossip by anyone !!! Stay away from people who do not have faith on you !! Neither you trust nor allow them to finger you one more time !!

My own experience !! 

Kuch khas tha yeh jaan leti joo
Meri nazar se dekha hota tumne 
Iss baat ka bass hua mujhko
Thodi si bhi koshish na ki tumne

Aab aur kya kehna hoga humne 
Karna tha joo woo kar liya tumne 
Shayad rahun ya narahun dilbar
Badla kabhi yeh faisla tumne

the secret of strength does not lie in having no weaknesses, but in acknowledging them. Not only will it make them less threatening - i have personally witnessed !!  

Women, please look twice your fitness, make time for your own, that is for your own body, that is for your own health !! its your thumb rule to be happy and  convey to other, how you are. Nobody will help you around once it will start deteriorate !!  A good health is the best gift from god, no matter how rich you are, how poor you are !! Your health defined you !!

Make your own time, do yoga, go for walk or never forget to hit the gym daily !! it should be like your Oxygen !! Once you sweat, you will sure enjoy the sweating glow on your face!! its a challenge from my side.

Else

Isme tera ghata !

Mera Kuch nehin Jaata !

May you too become that woman: strong, confident and unshakable. And remember – you are allowed to cry, get cranky and have cracks. So, no need to be fearful about being strong!! 

Tera Ghata, 
Mera Kuch Nahi Jaata
Jayada Pyaar Ho Jaata, 
To Main Seh Nahi Paata….

Being honest with yourself is harder than you think, but do. Often times what we think we want is twisted by society. For instance, I always thought I wanted my focus to be work. I was going to be that strong woman who made it out. Turns out I might be interested in creating a family instead. And that comfortable job I have now, works great.  Thank you God for everything you have given me !! May tough what your decision was, but you already given me that strength, stamina and tears in my eyes to face it, so boldly and moved it out too !! 

Being your Sister !! you made me that strong to be loud with my inner voice !! Love Nanu !! 

Socha nehin tha zindegi mein yun milogi
Milke bhi tum meri naho sakogi
Par yaad ayegi jab bhi tumhari
Shiqayatein  na hongi bas dua rahegi

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Isme tera ghata
Mera kuch nahi jata
Zyada pyaar ho jata
Toh main seh nahi pata

Read more: http://www.lyricsmint.com/2018/05/tera-ghata-gajendra-verma.html

Isme tera ghata
Mera kuch nahi jata
Zyada pyaar ho jata
Toh main seh nahi pata

Read more: http://www.lyricsmint.com/2018/05/tera-ghata-gajendra-verma.html