this title looks a little strong, right?
i know what you are thinking but trust me, i am not asking you to be self-centered. i am asking you women to think about your self and be aware of what you want. do you remember the last time you did something that interests you? do you remember the last time you went out with your loved one to spend some time that was exclusive to you both? do you remember the last time you did not worry about who will do the dishes or who will cook meals if your help calls in sick?............this is for you mom..have u really think of you !!
women around me are always busy, always thinking of every big and little thing except about themselves..... they are okay to miss their own breakfast but don’t forget to pack their husbands..... they skip their morning walk but don’t forget to wake the rest of the family up.... . ... and i ask why?
here is what i strongly believe – if i am not happy with my current state, i wonot be able to keep my loved ones happy. i will remain annoyed and cranky, i will have a hard time understanding others in my life. if i am not healthy, how will I take care of those who I love. if i am not working towards my career goals, how will i encourage others to do so. i believe, it all begins with me.
the flight safety instructions also recommend that a mother should wear her mask first and then help her child. so, stop being sacrificing to that last morsel on the plate, keep yourself fit, think of your career and your personal goals, your purpose in life and do what keeps you alive as a person and strive to find joy in yourself. yes, your family needs you but not more than you need yourself......................
though today i felt i m lil selfish ...but i strongly believe ..i have to just bcoz i love you all ...taking care of you is as simple as taking care of me.. to make you smile ,, i have to smile first ..this is what putting mask is so tuff one day...but neither start nor end ..its just beginning of life ...miles to go...jyoti..win me over, take me out..!!
i know what you are thinking but trust me, i am not asking you to be self-centered. i am asking you women to think about your self and be aware of what you want. do you remember the last time you did something that interests you? do you remember the last time you went out with your loved one to spend some time that was exclusive to you both? do you remember the last time you did not worry about who will do the dishes or who will cook meals if your help calls in sick?............this is for you mom..have u really think of you !!
women around me are always busy, always thinking of every big and little thing except about themselves..... they are okay to miss their own breakfast but don’t forget to pack their husbands..... they skip their morning walk but don’t forget to wake the rest of the family up.... . ... and i ask why?
here is what i strongly believe – if i am not happy with my current state, i wonot be able to keep my loved ones happy. i will remain annoyed and cranky, i will have a hard time understanding others in my life. if i am not healthy, how will I take care of those who I love. if i am not working towards my career goals, how will i encourage others to do so. i believe, it all begins with me.
the flight safety instructions also recommend that a mother should wear her mask first and then help her child. so, stop being sacrificing to that last morsel on the plate, keep yourself fit, think of your career and your personal goals, your purpose in life and do what keeps you alive as a person and strive to find joy in yourself. yes, your family needs you but not more than you need yourself......................
though today i felt i m lil selfish ...but i strongly believe ..i have to just bcoz i love you all ...taking care of you is as simple as taking care of me.. to make you smile ,, i have to smile first ..this is what putting mask is so tuff one day...but neither start nor end ..its just beginning of life ...miles to go...jyoti..win me over, take me out..!!
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